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Trying means eventually: not now
When they say I'll try: trying means I might do it eventually. Put them in victim position, would I'll try be acceptable from your oppressor, or would you want them to stop immediately?
Gives ammo
Great, trying is a good first step!
Gives nothing
If you were your victim, would I'll try be good enough, or do you need them to stop now? Vegan from now?